Larsen, E. (1985). Stage II recovery: Life beyond addiction. HarperOne.
There can be so much more to recovery than stopping using. Larson builds on the early foundations of substance use recovery, addressing challenges individuals encounter beyond reducing/stopping using. This book introduces what Larson calls “Stage II Recovery” which focuses on behavior change, relationship repairs, and personal growth once problematic substance use is behind us. Through practical suggestions, insights and coping skills, the author guides readers on how to build a life worth living in recovery. This book is a resource for anyone in recovery, family members of those in recovery, or professionals in the field of addiction treatment.
As an individual who identifies as a person in long term recovery, this book has been a valuable resource both in early recovery and now. There are questions of “what do I do now?” Once I stopped using and found recovery. For me, using was only part of the problem, so stopping using can only be part of the solution. Once the drugs were gone, there were a lot of behaviors that also needed modification. This book helped me recognize certain behaviors and patterns that were still present, even when the drugs were long gone. People pleasing, perfectionism and care-taking are all character traits that become barriers to a life that is happy, joyous and free. Larson’s book helped me address unresolved issues, break unhealthy relationship patterns, and build a more meaningful and balanced life beyond addiction.
While this book has been particularly impactful in my recovery journey, I feel it is important to acknowledge that abstinence based recovery is not the only path to positive change. There are many different routes to recovery and each individual should be afforded the right to choose whatever path they feel is a best fit for them. I am a firm believer that what works for one person may not necessarily be what works for the next. It is important as social workers and individuals in helping professions that we encourage any positive steps toward change and never judge those who are not where “we think they should be.” Promoting recovery from substance use is about education, empathy, compassion, empowerment and unconditional love. I am truly grateful that I was provided the opportunity to find recovery, so I may share my experience with the next individual seeking hope.